We do a lot of talking here at Brides Television about brides, planners, and reality television weddings in general. In fact, I think it’s safe to say that wedding television is dominated by reality shows rather than fictitious fare. But how many times have we watched these reality weddings and wondered just how these people got to be on television? I mean, in regard to some of these brides and grooms, it seems the truth really is stranger than fiction.

So how do you get to be on one of these shows? What’s the process? Is selection fairly competitive, or can anyone apply? We get lots of brides inquiring about how to get on wedding shows like “Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?”, “Married Away,” “Platinum Weddings,” or even [shudder] “Bridezillas.” So I decided to check it out – and I thought I’d share with our readers what I found. In doing my research, I came across some surprises and tidbits of information worth being aware of, especially for those considering sharing their wedding stories with the world.

Wedding reality television is a genre that is growing by leaps and bounds, and there are many ways to be a part of this sector in entertainment. The first step is to find a show in which you’d be interested that is casting. To do that, you might check out the websites of networks that televise wedding fare (Style, WE, TLC, FitTV, etc.). However, some network sites do not display casting calls for their shows, in which case there are also non-network sites that can assist you. Blogcritics[dot]org and realitytvcastingcall[dot]com display the latest casting information for all reality television, whether betrothed or not. Other sites such as realitywanted[dot]com and bridalassociationofamerica[dot]com also possess information about appearing in front of the camera. However, their deadlines are not always up-to-date – and remember, in this industry timing is really everything. Another option is to contact a wedding planner associated with one of the shows (such as a “Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?” planner, whose business information is linked on the show’s site).

Now, not every bride qualifies for every show, which really shouldn’t surprise. Before applying, determine whether or not you qualify for the reality show of your dreams. For example, the qualification for “My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding” or “Platinum Weddings”is a minimum budget of $300,000-$400,000 – one many of us wouldn’t be able to afford. For a show like “Bulging Brides” or “Buff Brides,” your physical appearance and fitness are key to participating in the show (and keep in mind that you’ll be sharing the sensitive subject of weight on national television). Geography can also play a role in qualifying for a show. TLC asks that couples on their wedding programs be L.A.-based. “I Propose” asks for only in-state proposals. Timing is a critical factor when considering what show you qualify for, because shows typically cast based on when you’re getting married. Most casting calls list specific cut-off dates for couples applying to be on a wedding show. So, be prepared to have a date nailed down, even if it’s only a ballpark range.